Many people get nervous in public situations, but there’s one occasion that should never give you reason to fear. Opening presents in public should be a joyous celebration. Here are some tips on gift-opening etiquette so you don’t get your bows in a twist.

Come On, Get Happy
It may seem like a strange reminder, but when opening gifts, be sure to keep a cheerful disposition. Opening presents can often be stressful if you’re worried about hurting the giver’s feelings or about big public displays.

Just remember to smile graciously and show your appreciation of the gesture. After all, a gift is a symbol of one’s feelings and well-wishes toward another.

Mind Your P’s and Q’s
Those two little words can move mountains and melt icebergs. Always remember to say ‘thank you’ and express your gratitude when receiving a gift. Even if you aren’t sure you like the gift, it’s best to be polite and remember that old adage: it’s the thought that counts.

Thank You For Being A Friend
Sometimes opening presents in public can be a bit of a whirlwind. Before you hit your present-high, be sure to ask a friend to help you keep track of who each gift is from and what it was. Ask your buddy to be specific when recording so you can write a thoughtful and personalized thank you card after the festivities are over.

Recipe for Receipts
If you open a gift that for some reason does not suit your taste, you may want to ask for a gift receipt if one was not included with the gift. However, it’s important to ask for a gift receipt from the giver in private, away from the other guests so as not to embarrass or give offense. Be polite when asking for a gift receipt and explain gently that the sweater they gave you is not quite your size or that the gift is perfectly suited for your taste, but you already have twenty-three of them.

Giving gift cards is a quick and easy way to give someone a gift you know they will like, without having to put too much thought into it. But even without the hassle of trying to figure out everyone’s specific tastes, there are still some pitfalls to watch out for. Here’s a quick run-down to make sure you don’t get red carded–or left empty-handed:

Do check the expiration date! Don’t spoil a gift by giving an expired card. Most cards list the expiration date on the card itself, or on the original receipt.

Don’t buy from an unsecure online auction site. Only buy from trusted retailers that are long-standing and reputable, and aren't expected to go out of business.

Do keep location in mind! The management chain that owns the mall in your area might not be the one that has a presence in your recipient's area. Only buy cards from stores with many locations. If you aren’t sure, you can always check the store’s website for store locations, or make sure they can be redeemed online.

Do read the fine print and check for no hidden fees. Check the replacement policy for lost cards and whether or not they give change for the balance on the card after it’s been partially used.

Don’t wait to use cards you receive. Since most gift cards are treated like cas, you should care for them the same way. Keep them in a safe place and keep track of your balances so they aren't wasted.

Do give the recipient of your gift card the original receipt so that the money can be recovered if it becomes lost or is stolen.

Don’t give excessive amounts on gift cards. Gift smaller denominations so that if they are lost or stolen, it won't be a major disappointment.

Dokeep in mind you can always kick it old school. Giving cash instead of gift cards is always a safe alternative—and its accepted anywhere! When going this route, be sure to give crisp, shiny new bills and enclose them in a card.

 

To open, or not to open—that is the question! Sometimes it’s hard to tell when it’s appropriate to open presents and express your thanks in person, or wait to open gifts privately. While everyone has different customs and traditions, the truth is that really varies by occasion. Here are some guidelines to help take the guess work out of gift-opening.

Bridal Showers
At bridal showers, the tradition is to open gifts in front of guests and embarrass the bride-to-be with a hat made from the bows. Typically a bridesmaid or friend jots down who gave what, allowing the future bride’s hands to be free for ripping.